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You don’t want to take money away from your savings unless it’s absolutely necessary. Think of the currency of relationships like this: Encouragement = money in the bank Compassion = money in the bank Time doing something your teen or student enjoys = deposit But…Discipline = withdrawal Accountability = money going out Raising your voice = void When you add up all the times you spend with your teenager, you want to make sure your encouraging times always outweigh your discipline times in the same way you always want your checking account positive.The problem with some families happens when either Mom or Dad forgets the natural process.We have visions of those little boys climbing in our laps, needing our every minute of attention. And it’s not our responsibility to keep our kids needy.Granted, for the most part, folks do well by staying in their lanes, so to speak.
Every day is a day closer to a place where they can make their own decisions.
It simply means that maybe your paycheck isn’t the issue, but your character and confidence is.
A woman isn’t always disinterested in you because of your pay grade.
A mentor of mine once told me to think of friendship like a bank account.
It feels great to put money in and watch the numbers continue to climb, but it really hurts to pull money out.